Bette: Love doesn't stand still. It's constantly in motion, it's constantly transforming itself. You have to, I think, be accepting of the way it is. Those great chemical urges you have when you're a kid, they don't hang around, no matter how much Viagra you take. You have to get to the point where you see the person and see the person's soul and you adore the person's soul. That's really what we're here for, I think, ultimately.