Jon Gosselin: (about fixing his marriage) I tried, and if the other party isn't gonna help herself…I mean, I went to therapy. I learned about myself. If she's not gonna go to therapy, if she's not gonna fix herself, then it's not gonna work. It takes two people. I have a $22,000 therapy bill. I mean, I tried to have marriage counseling. I did it myself. She refused to go.