Jose Eber: Think of all the times you have been in a restaurant or at a party or a meeting and a woman has walked in to the room and you've hated her because she appears so perfect. She floats instead of walks. Her posture shows her self-confidence. Her clothes, her makeup and her hair are le dernier cri, the last word. You think she is absolutely beautiful. Then, because you can't stop staring at her, you get a better look. Her nose is too long, her mouth too big, her jaw too wide. She's very ordinary. In fact, you are prettier. So why did she take your breath away? Because her total look was created to give the illusion of perfect beauty. She is in control. You can be too, darling.