Kate Gosselin: (in 2009, after Jon publicly said that he "despised" her) You know, of course everybody's asking me, is that upsetting? Does that bother you? Well, of course it bothers me. Am I going to return the favor [by saying that I despise him too]? Absolutely not. I never will. I am a high road taker, and...I'll continue to say it. I need to do this [show] for my kids. I need to continue on, and I need to, um, you know, whatever's gonna play out, they will see. I don't need to say it.