Kyan on gay marriage: I think that absolutely, without the shadow of a doubt, gay people have a right to be married; have a right to have their relationships counted and validated. They already do count and they already are validated, that's a fact. And we live in a country where there are laws and systems and I think that our relationships need to be integrated into those. We shouldn't wait for Straight America to validate our relationships before we behave as if they're validated. In other words, if you're in a relationship and you feel like you're with your life partner, you should just behave and act like you're married. I think that's a very important thing we can do for ourselves … to sort of heal ourselves.