Mary:(On using humor to talk about painful experiences) One of the people I began working with was Michael Patrick King, who wrote [many episodes of]Sex and the City. Michael has been a dear friend of mine since I was 21 or 22 years old. Michael and [director] Lonny Price have got to be two of the funniest people on this planet. Whenever I would start to tell a story that was scary, or depressing or frightening, Michael would literally scream at me, "Don't scare me!" And I said, "Michael, there are people out there that are scary." And he said, "I don't want to hear about them from you... you can make me laugh.That's what I need. There's no point for you to go onstage and scare me, but not many people can walk onstage and make us laugh." Both Michael and I and Lonny and I agree that Norman Cousins is right. If you can laugh at something, it loses its power over you. If you can laugh about it and talk about it, you can heal.