Richard: (What makes him insecure) What makes me so nervous is approaching and trying to talk to women who I'd like to get to know. I have trouble if it's me who's doing the instigating. It's embarrassing- I'll start staring, and they'll think I'm a weirdo. Some people are really good at [breaking the ice.] Or they just have confidence and don't seem to care how the other person perceived them. I don't know what the fear is that makes me feel insecure.