Stephanie got engaged to Bobby Flay who is a renowned chef. Bobby proposed to Stephanie while they were skating at the Rockefeller Center on December 19, 2003. The pair married on February 20, 2005. Bobby's daughter was a junior Bridesmaid in their wedding. Stephanie's Law & Order: Special Victims Unit co-star, Mariska Hargitay, who introduced the couple, was a guest at their wedding.