Tanya filed an order of protection against former fiance, songwriter Jerry Lassiter, but did not appear at the court hearing to enforce the order. Her attorney, Thomas Bottorff explained that the two had reached an agreement to settle the matter between them. Tanya alleged that Jerry harrassed her before shows, grabbed her by the throat, and gave her a black eye, police noted that they had been called out 9 times in a year, 5 of those on domestic abuse issues. The couple share a 5 year old daughter.