Ruthie: I'm usually really good at knowing things before other people, with the exception of you and Martin. You're not in love with Simon, are you? Sandy: No. Ruthie: Yeah, and I'm not in love with Martin, either. Sandy: This is the truth, Ruthie. There was a time that I was jealous of Simon and Rose. And I wished Simon was in love with me, and that we were getting married, and I was having his baby. But that time has come and gone. This is Martin's baby, and Simon and Rose are in love with each other, and Martin's not in love with me, and I'm not in love with him. And sometimes it's hard to put aside what you want and just deal with what's real. That's what I have to do. And I'm afraid so does everyone else, including you. Ruthie: Yep. So that's why I was thinking that maybe we could be friends. We're both kind of angry and heartbroken. Sandy: Well, just be grateful that you're not angry, heartbroken, and pregnant. Ruthie: That's why I'm out here. (opens the car door) Look. People are going to talk about you and Martin, and then something else will happen, and they'll talk about that, and they'll forget about you and Martin. It's true. Life is pretty much like high school.
Eric: How are you doing? Ruthie: How do you think I'm doing? Eric: Well, I think you're...not doing that well. I think you're angry and heartbroken. Ruthie: Very insightful. Eric: I also think you're a bit selfish and, oh, a little sarcastic. Ruthie: What? Eric: You know, Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to count your blessings and to remember that no matter how bad off you are, there's always someone whose life is worse. Ruthie: I don't feel like feeling sorry for Martin right now, if you don't mind. Eric: Actually, I do mind. You're just not the kind of person who dwells in self-pity, and I don't want to see you wasting away the day or the weeks or the year feeling sorry for yourself. Martin is inside, enduring the whispers and the stares and comments, and Sandy's...sitting in the car, having changed her mind about her ability to do the same. You can choose your feelings, Ruthie. Choose to be grateful. Choose to be kind. Choose to be understanding, because you can do that. You can. Ruthie: I don't see you choosing to be nice to Rose. Eric: Point taken. I'll make a deal with you. I'll go in and be nice to Rose if you go get Sandy out of the car, because we've all tried and failed, but I have a feeling you can do it. Ah, I don't know what I'm thinking. I'm not gonna bargain with you. I'm just gonna go in and be nice to you, and you do what you want. Do whatever will make you feel good about yourself on Thanksgiving.
Lucy: There's a new rumor going around school. Eric: Oh, boy. Hmm. So the news has finally surfaced about Martin, and he still hasn't told Ruthie. Great. Hmm. We knew this might happen. Lucy: Well, here's something we didn't know might happen. We didn't know that the whole school might think that Martin got Ruthie pregnant. Eric: What? No. Lucy: I'm afraid so. Eric: That's ridiculous! Why would anyone think that that's true? Lucy: Well, let me see. Uh, one, she and Martin are very good friends, and these days, sometimes, friends have that sort of relationship. And two, she was out sick all last week, and three, she's a preacher's kid, so everyone always thinks the worst.
Meredith: You didn't tell me Ruthie called. And WHY are you going around telling everyone that she's having Martin's baby? Kelly: Careful. Wheelchair. You wouldn't hit me, would you? Meredith: No! But do not even try to make me feel sorry for you right now! Kelly: Okay, but I don't know what you're so upset about. Didn't you say Martin got some girl pregnant? Meredith: Not Ruthie. Kelly: Not Ruthie? Oops, my mistake.
Eric: Luce, we've all been so worried how she was going to take this, thinking Ruthie was a little girl, but she's not. She's a young woman. Lucy: Dad, she's a teenager.
(after Kevin gives Ruthie the box of soup labels) Ruthie: I love you! The computer staff is going to love you! The whole school's going to love you. And Jack's gonna love me! (she leaves house) Kevin: (to Savannah) I hope not. We don't like Jack.
Ruthie: So who else knows about this? My family? My whole family? Mom and Dad and Kevin and Lucy and Sam and David? And Matt and Simon and Mary? They all know? Everyone but me? Martin: Well, I don't know about Mary, but...
Eric: While everybody's getting seated, let's go around the table and let everyone say what they're grateful for. It's a Camden tradition, and this year, I want to start by saying Rose, I'm grateful you came all this way to have Thanksgiving dinner with our family. Welcome. (Rose smiles) Annie: (long pause) Yes. Welcome, Rose. I'm grateful that we have this time to spend with you, to get to know you better. Lucy: And I am grateful that my brother has found someone to love. Kevin: And we are grateful you love Simon. Rose: Oh. I get it. I've never done this, but I see how it works. So, following suit, I'm grateful that I'm me. I feel very fortunate to be healthy and wealthy and smart and beautiful, and to be the future Mrs. Simon Camden.
This episode was a part cross-promotional integration with Campbell's Soup Co. involving the company's Labels for Education program. There was a public service announcement from the series' stars encouraging viewers to participate in the Campbell's program through their schools.
Alyssa Spradley reprises her role as Kelly Davis. Her last appearance was in the season 9 episode Mi Familia (2).
This episode marks Megan Henning's (Meredith) last appearance on the series. She was contracted for only the first 9 episodes this season.
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