|Not to change the subject or anything, but I'm more than a little confused with Kara's decision to rush off and marry Anders. I've been trying to work it out but it still puzzles me. Why would she want to hurt Lee like that? Also, I get that she has commitment issues, but by not being with someone you confess your love to by running off and marrying someone else? WTF? Any thoughts?|
Marrying Anders is her way of protecting her heart. She likes Anders, maybe even loves him to some extent - but I don't think it is as deep as her emotional attachment to Lee. There is a huge difference between loving a man and being in love with a man - I think the later applies to Lee. And she has known Lee and his father a long time and probably fears disappointing them as much as she feels she's let herself down. She knows when she finally makes a committment to Lee that it has to last and she's just not ready for that...yet. Just my opinion.