(Erica is being interviewed on stage)
Katie: Why do you think you're still single?
Erica: You know, it's this … rabid desire, you know, to find "the one". It-it sounds like it's about the guy, but really, it's about the girl.
Katie: How do you mean?
Erica: Well, it's the expectations we have, you know? It cuts the male right out of the equation because any good relationship, it's about both people.
Katie: You mean, you've spent so many years going after what you want that you forgot that half of the relationship is actually in somebody else's hands?
Erica: Yeah, exactly. Exactly. 'Cause any true relationship, it's-it's never just about yourself, so … so, if you can stop looking at it like that, and-and put aside your desire to find "the perfect man", you might just find the man that's perfect for you.