Also, back to what LAWelk was saying about Janet/having the baby, look at Steves SL in early s8 where that girl, Jodi, came to him and she said she was pregnant. They (including Steve) made it seem like the girl wasnt going through anything either like SHE was ruining HIS life and she wasnt scared/undecisive about what to do. It wasnt like she was saying we have to get married and raise this kid together and be this happy family, she wanted nothing from him. Yet he kept saying things like "what about my choice..youre ruining my life..etcetc".
S8 was very annoying when it came to ethical dilemas and choices the characters made, Ive noticed lol