I agree that Hayley over reacted to the comment, I dont know why she got so emotional about it, and couldnt let it go.
What pissed me off about Bodie, is that later when he was talking to TJ, he said that he got the reaction he wanted from Hayley, so that proves he set out to hurt her. Its not the job of the housemates to go out of their way to make the show interesting, their everyday qualities and natural personality is what we want to see ie. Travis ( true aussie bloke) Different personalities etc do make it interesting, but I dont understand people who deliberately try to upset others all the time. Life is much simpler and easy being nice and getting along...it takes more effort to hate people. If he was comfortable with himself and enjoying the experience, he wouldnt need to pull peoples strings to get a reaction and satisfy his needs.