Xander: So, the crux of this plan is...
Anya: Sexual intercourse. I've said it, like, a dozen times.
Xander: Uh huh. Just working through a little hysterical deafness here.
Anya: I think it's the secret to getting you out of my mind. Putting you behind me. Behind me figuratively. I'm thinking face to face for the event itself.