TV sitcoms are a good form of escapism, but sometimes they prove very instructional. And that requires a dose of painful reality. Such is the case with "The Other Cheek". In it Jody is being bullied at school by a girl bigger than he is. Uncle Bill told him, after a fight with Buffy, that it's never okay to hit a girl (how he would have have fared against a girl as big as the bully is another matter). Cissy goes with Jody to see this girl and tell her to leave Jody alone, but the girl's creepy mother comes along and tells Cissy to get lost. Right away you can see one contributing factor to the girl's behavior. Uncle Bill goes with Jody to see her father, Mr. Michaels, who looks, sounds, and acts like the stereotypical Irish dockworker. He is utterly hostile, another indication of how she turned out so mean. Uncle Bill and Jody return home, where he tells Jody to try to make friends with her. She responds by blackmailing Jody into giving her money, i.e., tribute, i.e., extortion. Realizing that appeasement is not the answer, Bill goes once again to see Mr. Michaels. After faking sympathy, Michaels slugs Bill, but a second, unsuccessful attempt to do so brings reciprocation, and down goes Michaels. The girl is now very accomodating. Most likely, Mr. Michaels, fearful of another thrashing from Bill, tells her to lay off. Michaels was evidently a bully as a youth, and never grew out of it. It is disturbing that so many bullies learn their ways from their parents, either because they too were bullies, or because they just don't care, and become hostile when others try to intervene.
The moral: it is desirable and right to make peace, but not when the other party will have no part of it. It takes two to make peace, but only one to make war. Reason doesn't work when the other party won't listen.moreless
