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    chocoholic411

    [61]Dec 6, 2007
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    I like both!
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    missnewbie

    [62]Dec 6, 2007
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    Monica and Chandler are the perfect couple, and they just rock, but I have my issiues. Monica and Chandler kind of bought out the worst in each other... not Chandler so much, but season 5 onwards, Monica turned really obsessive over everything, and I'm pretty sure she wasn't as high maintenance in seasons 1-4. Also, she was completely walking over Chandler in season 7 onwards. Instead of that funny, sarcastic jokey guy, he turned into Mr Family Man. Admittedly, he did have a few moments, like the whole rambling thing that he did -- that was funny- but in Seasons 1-4 about every second line for Chandler was a some joke. Really hated how at Phoebe and Mike's Wedding they were a forcing him to stop making jokes. I swear, he stopped saying, "Could ... BE any more ..."

    As for Richard and Monica, when they were together, I loved them. When they broke up, I thought it was actually really sad. Admittedly it was a little creepy when they first started dating, but they had a good, mature relationship. But, let's face it, they would have never lasted... he was almost twice her age.

    SO, if I'd have to choose, Chandler all the way.

    Edited on 12/06/2007 12:15pm
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    MisterMatthews

    [63]Dec 7, 2007
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    missnewbie wrote:
    Instead of that funny, sarcastic jokey guy, he turned into Mr Family Man. Admittedly, he did have a few moments, like the whole rambling thing that he did -- that was funny- but in Seasons 1-4 about every second line for Chandler was a some joke. Really hated how at Phoebe and Mike's Wedding they were a forcing him to stop making jokes. I swear, he stopped saying, "Could ... BE any more ..."

    Although your analysis is correct and I agree with you, this was a character development Chandler *had* to go through. At one point, he needed to start 'growing up'. If he wanted to be happy, he had to get over his insecurities and commit himself to one woman in a lasting relationship. He overcame his fear of commitment, and I think he was happier before than after. And because of that, he no longer needed to crack so many sarcastic jokes, as he primarily used that as a defense mechanism. Still, the writers could have handled him with more class. He turned into a 'sad' character who made all bad jokes and then laughed at them himself (as the only one!). That was pathetic and not something the 'original' Chandler would do.

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    matthewawl

    [64]Dec 8, 2007
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    I thought it was sweet when Richard and Monica went out, although the age difference was a little concerning.

    Chandler and Monica didn't have as much of a mature relationship but they are a much sweater couple and a better match for each other Chandler all the way!
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    sbhinyo

    [65]Dec 8, 2007
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    Chandler, definitly but i think they had nothing in common and that's what made them likable.

    As for Richard (I heart) him but he wasn't right for her.And i'm not saying it's because of the age difference but because Richard was friends with her father. Just too weird for me but i liked them.
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    MisterMatthews

    [66]Dec 9, 2007
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    In season 9, 'The One in Barbados- Part I', Phoebe accidentally refers to David as "Mike". She assures David it was just a slip of the tongue. She says: "Monica stills refers to Chandler as 'Richard'." Monica grabs her arm and takes her outside: "Thanks for dragging me down with you." You think she still loved Richard?
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    th77

    [67]Dec 10, 2007
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    Chandler, there is no contest on that one!
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    efc1991

    [68]Dec 11, 2007
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    Chandler because Monica and Chandler were great together very funny.
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    JasmineTea88

    [69]Dec 11, 2007
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    Chandler, he is really funny.
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    missnewbie

    [70]Dec 11, 2007
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    MisterMatthews wrote:
    In season 9, 'The One in Barbados- Part I', Phoebe accidentally refers to David as "Mike". She assures David it was just a slip of the tongue. She says: "Monica stills refers to Chandler as 'Richard'." Monica grabs her arm and takes her outside: "Thanks for dragging me down with you." You think she still loved Richard?

    Nah, I doubt it. It was probably just added for comic purpose, and Pheobe was probably lying.

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    ---Els---

    [71]Dec 22, 2007
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    Chandler. every time. I liked Richard but I always thought him and monica had a wierd relationship.. I know its a cliche but he was a little bit like her father or brother, just the way he talked to her and treated her, there was more of a brotherly-vibe about the two of them. I think Courtney Cox and mathew perry have better chemistry together.
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    The_void_68

    [72]Dec 24, 2007
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    darthdyas wrote:

    Can we pick timelines too?

    Because I liked Chandler and Monica's early relationship, like season 5 maybe. He still maintained his character and still delivered sharp comments and stood up for himself. Monica was still sweet and treated Chandler with respect.

    I guess this falls more within the general critism of the later years, but I did not like how their relationship turned out once they lived together and married. Chandler became more mature, which was okay. He couldn't act like a kid forever. But I didn't like how they turned him so feminine and lame. In the earlier seasons Chandler was funny, later on he was just the guy who told bad jokes.

    I really hated how Monica kept insulting him and walked all over him. Where was the cute Chandler and Monica that did the crossword puzzle together in season 5? I don't have a problem with her being the dominant one in thier relationship, but I found her very mean towards Chandler. And he just took it too.

    In the end, both of their characters were ruined IMO. But I guess that goes for all of them, except maybe Rachel.

    I agree, their marriage in the later seasons was very cliched (ie The dominant wife and the downtrodden husband)

    But one of the greatest Mondler moments was from Season 8;

    CHANDLER: You opened all the presents?
    MONICA: You kissed another woman?
    CHANDLER: Call it even?
    MONICA: OK!
    (High-five)

    I love that moment.

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    gwen13579

    [73]Dec 26, 2007
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    I really liked Monica/Richard actually. But I grew to love Monica/Chandler more. Monica and Chandler wouldn't have made sense if they'd got together before they did, but when they got serious about each other, it made sense. I thought Richard actually made Season 2 a much more worthwhile season. But in The Proposal episode, I felt terrible for Chandler when he said 'I thought you were a good guy'. I think that's the episode I realised Monica and Chandler were meant to be together. Richard was no longer the love of her life by that point.
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    banannie

    [74]Dec 29, 2007
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    The_void_68 wrote:

    But one of the greatest Mondler moments was from Season 8;

    CHANDLER: You opened all the presents?
    MONICA: You kissed another woman?
    CHANDLER: Call it even?
    MONICA: OK!
    (High-five)

    I love that moment.

    I love that moment, too. About that Richard vs. Chandler thing... I liked Richard, I really did and I had no problem with the age difference between him and Mon. But I think Chandler is so much better for Monica than Richard ever was. Monica and Chandler are such a funny and great couple!

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    Gilmorefan09

    [75]Dec 29, 2007
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    Chandler all the way!!!
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    SecFruit_Brucas

    [76]Dec 29, 2007
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    Chandler, he really loves her.
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    T_Brennan

    [77]Dec 29, 2007
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    100% Chandler!
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    gwen13579

    [78]Dec 31, 2007
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    The Monica of Seasons 2-3 fit with Richard. The Monica of Seasons 5-10 fit with Chandler. She was great with both of them but ultimately her marriage to Chandler became the lasting relationship. Chandler stopped being afraid of commitment when he fell in love with Monica. Richard only decided he wanted kids when he saw she'd moved on and was with Chandler, it wouldn't have been right if she'd gone back to Richard simply because he was her first love.
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    brunettegmp

    [79]Dec 31, 2007
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    I like both but Chandler more cuz he was funnier and Richard didnt want to have more kids when Monica did but chandler did too so it worked out.
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    Willick-Bunch

    [80]Feb 19, 2008
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    Fun Bobby! With a drink!
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