Phoebe: Enh... don't be so hard on yourself. If someone I was still in love with was getting married...
Rachel: (incredulous) Still in love with...?
Rachel: I'm not in love with Ross...
Phoebe: Oh... No, no. Good! ...Yeah, me neither.
Rachel: Phoebe, I'm not going to Ross's wedding because he's my ex-boyfriend and that would be really uncomfortable... not because I'm still in love with him. I mean, hey, y'know, I like Ross as much as the next guy. Y'know, clearly I have feelings for him, but feelings don't mean love! Y'know, I mean, I still have loving feelings for Ross... Yeah! But, I have, I have continuing feelings of love, but that doesn't mean that... that I'm still in love with him! Y'know, I have, I have sexual feelings for him, but I do love him... Oh! Oh, my God! Oh... (jumping to her feet) Why didn't you tell me?!
Phoebe: We thought you knew!
Phoebe: Yeah, we all know! We talk about it all the time!
Rachel: You all know? Does Ross know?
Phoebe: Oh, no. Ross doesn't know anything.
Rachel: Oh, I cannot believe you didn't tell me!
Phoebe: Well, because we thought you knew! It's so obvious! God, that would be like telling Monica, "Hey, y'know, you like things clean..." or, y'know, "Hey, Joey... you're gay."