Grey's Anatomy Season 6 Episode 17

Bailey: Okay, here's the thing. I don't do things because there's a timeline. I don't do things because it's the third anything. I may have been out of the dating game for a while but I don't play by anyone's rules other than my own. So, whatever expectations you walked into this evening with...
Ben: Are you lecturing me?
Bailey: No, I'm...
Ben: No, you are. You lecture people. I think most people are scared of you. So nobody's willing to interrupt you once you get on a roll. But uh, I'm not scared. So the lecture thing's not gonna work. We gonna have to have a conversation. Don't worry. Ask me a question. Then I'll answer, then you get another turn. Go ahead.
Bailey: Are you under the impression that we're going to have sex tonight? Because if that's the case...
Ben: Ask the question. Don't answer the question. I'll answer the question. No. I'm not assuming that we're gonna have sex tonight. You're a grown woman. Neither of us is looking for something trashy. So I kinda thought the third date was a little early... What do you think?
Bailey: Me, too. I... Can I make a statement or just questions?
Ben: A statement is fine.
Bailey: I... Uh... I have never had sex with anyone other than my husband. Former husband.
Ben: So it's not something you get into lightly.
Bailey: No.
Ben: Neither do I. What else?
Bailey: When do you think is the right time?
Ben: I'd like to think we'd know it when we see it. Probably somewhere between date 8 and 12 though.
Bailey: Oh... So, no concern we'll end up just friends?
Ben: Is that what you're looking for?
Bailey: No.
Ben: Me neither. Look, um... I don't wanna be your friend. I have enough friends.