I'd say more out of respect for her, rather than me, but either way, you shouldn't try to judge somebody. She may have perfectly good reasons.
Look at me, I vanished for two years because I got into a relationship with somebody who became controlling, manipulative, abusive, etc etc...and I have a hard time even admitting that...I don't even tell people EVERYTHING. The whole thing made me wary, when I finally got out of that situation and got back here. I browsed these forums for the longest time, never saying anything, holding back.
iCarly was dead to me, thanks to my ex, thanks to her mother. WRITING had become dead to me, my "bouncing back" story got me back, but I still can't really write Seddie anymore, just...too much, and I don't bother trying to explain it. Seddie became dead to me.
You know, it took a LOT of courage for me to even say anything. I didn't know a lot of you guys anymore, a lot of the old people I was familiar with...gone, so I was afraid. I was afraid of not being accepted. Hell, I think if not for the fact that PCSF was one of the old ones that I remembered, then I might never have come back. Just faded away...
You never know what reasons people might have, you never know what people might cling to. I clung to some of those old people, or some of the old threads here in order to hold that sense of familiarity. I NEEDED familiarity in order to gain comfort. Right now, MSkate is at least looking at submissions, that's important. I can tell she's accepting, she just accepted one of my submissions for the Pity the Nevel episode...so who knows, if you give her time, MAYBE she'll ease back into the forums, or maybe not. Who really knows? Nobody can predict the future and nobody can read into anybody's minds.
So definitely, thank you for understanding , and so far, yes, everything is okay on the forums. Nothing's getting out of control, nothing's chaotic at all. Everything's decent...