Kate: I was kind of feeling really sad on our anniversary. Of course we made it to ten years [because we weren't yet divorced at the time], but we didn't celebrate it together, which was, like, really a bummer, actually. And so I woke up that morning, and I had two choices. Um, I could wallow in self-pity all day and do nothing, or I could make the day, uh, fun for the kids. So I decided, with our gym equipment and pretty much things that we already had--I got a couple of extra things--I was going to do an obstacle course for the kids. I designed the obstacle course as a way to do something fun on a day that felt very sad...it didn't matter who was fastest or slowest, but the kids had a lot of fun.