Rob: Sometimes people gotta obliterate everything in their path just to get themselves back on track.
Amy: That's exactly how it feels.
Rob: And sometimes innocent people get incinerated because they happen to be too close to the blow.
When Gillian and Amy discuss "Ferberizing" over drinks, they are referring to the progressive system of teaching infants to fall and stay asleep on their own, developed by pediatric sleep disorder specialist Dr. Richard Ferber.