Marriage and kids do not come with instructional manuals. You have to be willing to take chances and learn on a daily basis. If you make mistakes and learn from them,it's OK.Being married with kids doesn't mean you have to give up your guy time. I had girl time,he had guy time,we had time with the 4 kids and we had our private time. It's a win-win situation. NEVER Never go to bed mad. Work on the current problems & don't throw up things from the past. Good Luck. I think you will make a good father and husband.