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Big or Aiden or Alex?

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    Milks23

    [21]Oct 27, 2005
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    [QUOTE="jenfine"]Personally, I thought the Alex character was just plain stupid.






    I agree his role was just boring, but at the same time the show was going downhill, so crappy mistakes like him was, natural so to speak.
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    NoOneFanilow

    [22]Nov 3, 2005
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    Big is the best for Carrie. They are meant to be togther.
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    The_AG

    [23]Nov 4, 2005
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    NoOneFanilow wrote:
    Big is the best for Carrie. They are meant to be togther.


    I agree!
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    samiam78

    [24]Nov 16, 2005
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    Big is Carrie's true love, but Aiden was such a sweet wonderful guy.
    I think Aiden wanted to settle down and Carrie just couldn't admit to him that she really wasn't ready... and wasn't ready because she would always love BIG.
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    scooby_92

    [25]Dec 9, 2005
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    I liked Big but I hated the way they treated the situation. I felt that Carrie was always crawling back to Big. I think I would have picked Aiden.

    And Aiden is a cute name much better than John.
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    waverley

    [26]Dec 14, 2005
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    i absolutely could not stand aiden! and i was definitely rooting for her and big every season...
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    Milks23

    [27]Dec 15, 2005
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    waverley wrote:
    i absolutely could not stand aiden! and i was definitely rooting for her and big every season...





    Your going down.......just kidding
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    The_AG

    [28]Dec 18, 2005
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    waverley wrote:
    i absolutely could not stand aiden! and i was definitely rooting for her and big every season...


    I agree! I was rooting for Big the whole time...though I did somewhat like Aiden the first time...but he became an ass the second time...and when he got better he was just all into trying to get into Carrie's heart which ended up sufficating her...and that kinda bugged me....
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    ksm05

    [29]Jan 5, 2006
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    I loved Aiden!!!!!
    Her and Big I think had more sexual chemistry but I loved her in a relationship with Aiden. It broke my heart in the episode that Carrie sees Aiden on the street when he is carrying his baby. Carrie turns around and just says "wow Aiden" I love that moment of the show.
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    bahabasaran

    [30]Jan 5, 2006
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    I think the characters of Aiden and Carrie are definitely not suitable for each other because of this, they could not get on with each other even after 2nd time!

    Aiden is more like a settling down type of a guy but John Big is a man to understand a new yorker girl in every means! Aiden cannot go with Carrie's lifestyle it is true with Berger, too but there was love there not su much as the love between Carrie and Big!
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    FrancisJMAAB

    [31]Jan 17, 2006
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    It's funny, I thought that Carrie should have picked Aiden all along, I mean he wanted to marry her, he was so nice all the time, he forgave her, and Big just treated her badly it seemed.

    But I realized that for Carrie it was Big all the way, and for me it was Aiden. I would have wanted to settle down and have a family, because that's what I did. But Carrie was different, and Big was more her type. They had history and chemistry...so it makes sense now.

    I picked my Aiden and she picked her Big.

    Marie
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    Milks23

    [32]Jan 20, 2006
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    FrancisJMAAB wrote:
    It's funny, I thought that Carrie should have picked Aiden all along, I mean he wanted to marry her, he was so nice all the time, he forgave her, and Big just treated her badly it seemed.

    But I realized that for Carrie it was Big all the way, and for me it was Aiden. I would have wanted to settle down and have a family, because that's what I did. But Carrie was different, and Big was more her type. They had history and chemistry...so it makes sense now.

    I picked my Aiden and she picked her Big.

    Marie




    just goes to show u....that there are a lot of masochists in this world
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    FrancisJMAAB

    [33]Jan 20, 2006
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    I don't get it...am I missing something?
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    Milks23

    [34]Jan 21, 2006
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    FrancisJMAAB wrote:
    I don't get it...am I missing something?




    Carrie would rather chase Big around even though he keeps breaking her heart than just settle down with Aiden
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    Shorty_097

    [35]Jan 21, 2006
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    Big, definitely.
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    SundayVM

    [36]Jan 22, 2006
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    Personally I believe that Big was the ultimate for her...meanwhile I really did like Aiden and Alex because both of those relationships showed how she developed as a person...as far as Berger!!!! No Way EVER! Any man that would feel insecure because of a woman's success truly just doesn't belong!

    Big was the best though!
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    FrancisJMAAB

    [37]Jan 24, 2006
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    Oh, okay, I thought you were saying something about me...I didn't get it. I agree though, Big broke her heart, and Aiden was the real deal. I mean, he forgave her for cheating on him. He was always so sweet to her, wanted to marry her, and she goes for Big...it's always the guy who hurts you most that you want, why is that?

    Someone said that Aiden tried to hold her back, and she was a free spirit, I don't get that. He just wanted a wife, he wanted to be with her, what's wrong with that?

    Oh well, it is what it is.

    Marie
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    Milks23

    [38]Jan 25, 2006
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    FrancisJMAAB wrote:
    Oh, okay, I thought you were saying something about me...I didn't get it. I agree though, Big broke her heart, and Aiden was the real deal. I mean, he forgave her for cheating on him. He was always so sweet to her, wanted to marry her, and she goes for Big...it's always the guy who hurts you most that you want, why is that?

    Someone said that Aiden tried to hold her back, and she was a free spirit, I don't get that. He just wanted a wife, he wanted to be with her, what's wrong with that?

    Oh well, it is what it is.

    Marie




    Well, I wasn't.

    The female gender is strange......not all women want the guy that hurts them but your right a majority of them do.

    That whole comment about Carrie being a free spirit and Aiden holding her back is
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    thelionking2

    [39]Mar 8, 2006
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    My votes for Aiden, Sure Big can be sweet but hes just hurt her to many times
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    FrancisJMAAB

    [40]Mar 11, 2006
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    I just have to ask, why was everyone wondering at the end who she would pick? I mean, from what I've seen so far, Aiden had already moved on, got married and had a baby, Alex from what I've read didn't treat her well, and was way older...so why wouldn't she end up with Big? Why was there this huge fanfair at the end, I remember everyone wondering who she would end up with...wasn't it obvious?

    Correct me if I'm wrong here, I haven't even seen every episode yet...I was just wondering.

    Marie
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