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Big or Aiden or Alex?

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    Ms1fan

    [81]Sep 23, 2006
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    Big, all they went through, the complicated relationship, the heartache, and she loved him most.
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    blondiee75

    [82]Sep 25, 2006
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    No Question Big. I liked Aiden but she was ment to be with Big. Not sure about how I feel about Alex. I think he was good for a fling. But something about it was a little creepy. But I think he really loved her in his way.
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    Tessa_Patton

    [83]Oct 9, 2006
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    Absolutely Big. Aiden was good but not as hot as Big
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    jenfinglas

    [84]Oct 21, 2006
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    alex:ughh god no,makes my skin crawl everytime i see him.why he was written in to the show i will never know because not only was the storyline not believeable in any way,he was an awful actor.

    aidan:no,wat a drip.they may have loved each other but i dont think carrie was ever in love with him.thank they didnt end up 2gether.he was just way too nice,the kind of nice that makes you want to throw up

    big,yes,yes yes yes yes!!!!i dont need to explain...........

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    rockyourself

    [85]Oct 23, 2006
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    Mr. Big!
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    FRE5Hmaker

    [86]Oct 23, 2006
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    The moment that MADE Big for me is in the episode "I Heart NY", the last episode of season 4, when he and Carrie were twisting/dancing to Moon River. Whenever I see it or even think about it, it just makes my heart melt. *MELT*
    Edited on 10/23/2006 7:45pm
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    docdana

    [87]Oct 27, 2006
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    The person who started this should have been more clear: Who did Carrie belong with, or who did we (as the audience) like best? Everyone knows that she belongs with Big. Although both Carrie and Big have likable qualities, they're both shallow and self-centered. Very good for each other. Who do I prefer? Aiden. By far. It took me a long time to like Mr. Big because he was such a prick in the first few seasons, but Aiden was always a nice guy. A little too nice for Carrie.  And Aiden is HOT.

    P.S. Miranda is the best TV character of all time (next to Karen of "Will and Grace").  It had to be said.
    Edited on 10/27/2006 6:54pm
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    graygirl4ever

    [88]Nov 3, 2006
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    Aiden! He was the nicest, the hottest, and he adored Carrie.  Big was always totally inconsiderate of her and her feelings.  I felt it was unrealistic that she ended up with him.  The girl who gets played never ends up with the guy who played her.
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    samantha2412

    [89]Nov 4, 2006
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    come on people off course big who else i think Aidan just wanted to get married i mean i no he loved Carrie but look how fast he moved on within a year he was married to a designer and with child and as for Alex i hate him with a passion poor Carrie for thinking she would have been happy with him but Miranda had it right when she said Carrie was living in a fantasy she had to so that she could live without big!!!
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    lit1586

    [90]Nov 7, 2006
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    Aiden was my favorite for her, but I think it was right that she ended up with Big
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    MyHoneyCJ

    [91]Nov 14, 2006
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    Big was best suited for Carrie....although I loved Aiden too 

    Too bad we didn't see more of Berger    but I was glad to see Alex go!!

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    mblovestix

    [92]Nov 18, 2006
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    I think that Big is perfect 4 Carrie...

    Here's a very nice fan-made video on YouTube:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YbNI2fxPZA

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    malibuandcoke

    [93]Nov 20, 2006
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    Big was best suited for Carrie, but I personally loved Aiden. Alex was just gross and shouldnt have even been in the picture.
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    lozza1525

    [94]Nov 21, 2006
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    Of course, Big.
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    Mela1975

    [95]Nov 27, 2006
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    I wish she loved Aidan as much as he loved her.
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    smartmouth65

    [96]Dec 15, 2006
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    BIG! They had such great chemistry! He didn't treat her right, that's true, but Carrie totally mismanaged the relationship at first. Following him to church?!? that's kinda creepy. She could have just let him have his "cold" moments without pushing for her relationship milestones. While they were in "free & easy" part of the relationship, they were golden. I'm sooo glad she ended up with him...Aidan, I disliked from the first through the last. (and I am a John Corbett fan).
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    officefan24

    [97]Dec 21, 2006
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    well I would have picked Aidan for me. I think he was the best of the guys BUT not for Carrie on the show. She fit the best with Big and that's why they are one of those great TV couples. It is believable--it had the good and the bad but they always wanted each other. I think Aidan was too good for her, I think Berger and her had great chemistry but he was too insecure, and I think that Alex was a joke--that storyline bored me to death!
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    Califgirlx7

    [98]Dec 28, 2006
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    Big, definitely.
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    CiCi0788

    [99]Dec 28, 2006
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    I'm going to have to say Aiden. I just can't get over how Big treated Carrie in the earlier seasons. I know that he eventually came around and in the end he wanted to be with her, but that's just not enough to make me like him. I don't easily forgive...and I cannot forgive that character for his behavior early on in the show. Aiden adored Carrie and he was by her side from the start. He even took her back after she cheated on him. I know many people will disagree and that's fine, but I personally would've been happier if she'd ended up with Aiden.
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    amy2310

    [100]Jan 13, 2007
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    I LOVED Aidan would have happily had him for myself lol! But Big kinda grew on me in the end and like people before me have said I think that they both suited each other in the end, as for Alex he was def not one of my faves.

    xx

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