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Big or Aiden or Alex?

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    sweetmemi

    [161]Sep 20, 2007
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    I like Aiden.
    Just seeing episodes with him and Carrie together made me happy. I think they were great for each other.
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    thecatsmother

    [162]Oct 16, 2007
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    I loved Big. I thought he was Carrie's perfect match and every minute she wasted with Aidan (too soppy) or Alex (no sense of humour) was a crying shame. For me he just wins hands down in the looks and charm categories.
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    luvmehatme

    [163]Oct 24, 2007
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    I think that we should remember that Carrie did not waste any time with Aiden or Aleksandr. She was given no choice when BIG dumper her, again and married Natasha, then dated the movie star, then moved to Napa. She was just trying to move on with her life. As for Big being the one always...I am not sure that this is true. He would have never made a proper commitment to Carrie if it were the first two seasons. I am glad he got his stiff together, but, for me at least, it would have been too little to late. I should know, I have a BIG, ironically, his name is John, too. Let him go in a yelling way (think when Carrie SCREECHED at Big the night before she went to Paris on the street-that was gut wrenching).

    For these reasons, I have to go with Aiden being my all time favorite. He made no bones how he felt about her up front, no games, no chasing. He was a great, great guy and I STILL cry when I see the scene when she sneaks into the next door apt and cuddles with him one last time. I love that.

    As for Berger, well, I believe that a previous poster asked how some one could do what he did to Carrie. Well, let me just tell you that after my man of six months actually TEXTED me this: "I just don't think this is going to work out. I'm Sorry. Hope U don't hate me" I stopped looking for the reason that most men do anything

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    Kylie90210

    [164]Nov 5, 2007
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    Aiden.... I was so disapointed when she wound up with Big. But Aiden deserved better than how Carrie treated him.
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    lady_joanne85

    [165]Nov 10, 2007
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    Aidan....

    Alex... i like the accent but not the person

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    hella_ilieva

    [166]Nov 12, 2007
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    BIG
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    RorroEFS

    [167]Nov 14, 2007
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    Aidan wqas my fav.
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    sbhinyo

    [168]Nov 25, 2007
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    Big and Aidan were my favorite's for Carrie. But what about Berger he was cute.
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    italian_bella10

    [169]Dec 10, 2007
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    Big..he was sexy as all hell!
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    stellarchick86

    [170]Jan 1, 2008
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    Well, as far as how they were together, Big, but i dont think he treated her or would treat her as well as Aidan so im going with him. I never liked Alex, he was weird, had no sense of humor and like nothing in common with Carrie.
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    littlematilda

    [171]Jan 25, 2008
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    Big, He treated her like crap, over and over. And every time I think he saw that he was losing her more and more, and the more he lost her the more he realized that he couldn't not not have her in his life.

    And they were funny together, they could joke around and be themselves. Carrie always seemed like herself, well, not with Alic. But Big only ever seemed like a easy-going guy who was happy when he was with Carrie.

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    sweetmemi

    [172]Jan 27, 2008
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    I feel like Carrie settled for Alex
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    MrsMcDreamy87

    [173]Jan 29, 2008
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    I know that Big treated Carrie really bad but there was always a chemistry between them and it couldn't match any of her other relationships. Big is my favourite, but i also like Aiden because he is so sweet and romantic.

    I did not like Alex, he was awful.

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    Bliss_West88

    [174]Jan 31, 2008
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    I liked Aidan with Carrie, Big just always treated her bady and was really annoyed that they got together at the end, i think she def was happy with Aidan
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    txp-lucky49

    [175]Feb 8, 2008
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    The Big and maybe a little bit Aiden...

    Check this: http://prize.zzl.org/vote.php?id=60038

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    ferriswheel01

    [176]Mar 4, 2008
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    txp-lucky49 wrote:

    The Big and maybe a little bit Aiden...

    Check this: http://prize.zzl.org/vote.php?id=60038

    Agreed

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    cutieflutie1216

    [177]Mar 26, 2008
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    I love Aiden but ever since she cheated on him, the relationship was doomed.

    I believe Big is Carrie's soulmate.

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    mrsAri

    [178]Mar 26, 2008
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    BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBig
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    WickedNugget

    [179]Mar 27, 2008
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    I LIKED Aiden the best, because he just was that charm and that smile, and seemed nicer. Big was Big.. He had class and he and Carrie probably matched better together. I would've gone after Aiden though!
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    stellarchick86

    [180]Mar 28, 2008
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    If Im going by who was good for Carrie, then Id definetly say Aiden. He was always sweet, patient, and there for her. If Im going by personality, Id say Big. He always cracked me up. Carrie: "I gotta go..someones on the other line."
    Big: "Pork-pie? Carrie likes a jazz man..jazzzz" lol

    Carrie: "Hey you cant smoke in here" Big: "Thats cool." (meanwhile he has that look on his face like he just lost a best friend) lol
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