I think that the way they wrote it, showed Rose to afraid to make any of her own choices. It was stated in the pilot that it's been quite a long time since Charlie. I would think it would be a little bit easier to accept a date now. It has been quite a long time, and it should have been written a little differently with Rose more confident of her choice.
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