Charles williams was on your show in 2010 with his girlfriend edweena for cheating, he is now passed and all his family in Chicago and Michigan would love for this to be replayed can you tell me what episode it is so maybe we can see it on here?
I enjoy your program very much. It is the best talk show of its kind on daytime tv as it really discusses deep issues and you try to offer obtainable solutions to your guest's problems.
My name is Michael. I am a recovering Heroin addict. I had a 24 year addiction. I was a NYU graduate and became a high school French teacher. Some years into teaching my cousin introduced me to the drug. It took over my life and ruined it for all those years. I spent two decades of rehabs, detoxes and methadone/suboxone programs. I am happy to report that I am clean today. I had three years clean when I had a brief relapse in the summer of 2013 but I am back to the 12 step programs now 16 months and doing better than ever.
As a child I had been bullied by the boys in gym class. I was thin and non-athletic. I am gay but didn't know it at that time, just knew I felt "different" than the other kids. I was never physically or sexually touched, but the verbal abuse penetrated my psyche and has been the root to my chemical abuse.
I am currently working the field of mental health and addictions. It is very rewarding. I have my application in to graduate school for counseling in co-occurring illnesses--working with both mental illnesses and addictions. I hoping to be accepted however I failed the GRE test miserable. I'm positive I will never need to know the slope of the y axis to the x axis as a therapist!! LOL.
Anyway, your shows on pedophilia, cheating partners, abuse of women, and substance abuse touch me deeply. Any show where one is a victim reminds me of my own trauma of being in junior high school gym class. Those biting words from those boys caused me to retreat into a world of drugs at the age of 13. I was a smart kid and somehow always maintained excellent grades even though my drug use increased in type and frequency as I graduated high school and went to university and even completed a portion of grad school with a 4.0 while shooting heroin in the school's bathroom.
Some of your guests are in such deep denial of their substance abuse that it never surprises me that when you do an update that they left the treatment center you set up for them. It is a very sad thing to leave such an opportunity when there are people literally dying out there who would love such an opportunity for recovery. Although the 12 step program approach to recovery may not be a blanket answer for all addicts/alcoholics, it is the only modality which worked for me. I tried everything out there. I thought for sure therapy would be the answer. It is part of my reality today but working a twelve step program is top priority. The support of people all doing the same thing goes without parallel. With Honesty, Open-Mindedness, and Willingness, HOW-- is how it works.
In your dealings with pedophilia, their chances at recovery are not that successful. They can be incarcerated for years but no real help will they gain in prison. Potentially, if they are highly motivated to change and really willing and remorseful, they could work with an excellent expert in the field who is trained especially to handle these cases. They may have some positive results but the outlook still remains grim for the most part. And society will seldom if ever forgive this crime no matter how much rehabilitation the person receives.
The man who is abusive to his partner or women abusive to her husband, is that bully on the playground all grown up. He is coward wearing a neck size 17 and xxl shirts. He exerts his power over the weaker person to cover up his own inadequacies and short comings. He is no more than a frightened little boy incapable of assuming an adult mature relationship with a partner. He beats her and controls her every move to show his power because within himself he feels nothing of the kind. I love it when you have those guys on who come and show these guys what it's like to have them be controlled and talked down to and shouted/screamed at. they end up cowering and eventually the tears do flow as those men often break through the abusive men's defense mechanisms and bring light to exactly what they've been doing to their partner.
And lastly you have the cheaters!! People cheat for a myriad of reasons but often out of insecurity and fear. They may fear that their partner is eventually going to leave them or cheat on them anyway so they want to beat them to the punch. They cheat for sex addictions, just to fulfill a lust that is burning within them that their one partner alone cannot fulfill. They are addicted to pornography sites, strip clubs, and prostitutes. Sex addictions like other addictions are filling a void in a person that they have not been able to fill on their own. There are the obsession and compulsion components viable to all addictions across the board. The old adage once a cheater always a cheater can ring true in some cases. Many cases though the person is very remorseful and it was just a one time affair and if they are forgiven they will go back to their marriage and work on it and do not repeat that affair. I think cheating is complex because it is dealing with one's psychology and biology. Add alcohol or other substance in the mix and you have a recipe for disaster given the right circumstances. --the lonely housewife whose husband is always working or travelling, the wife who is too busy with kids and work and too tired all the time for sex, the husband who goes out a lot with an active social life independent of his partner and meets women all the time casually, just the marriage which has become mundane and lost any spark, the couple where communication has stopped and the two begin leading separate lives and even stop sharing a bed.
These were just some of my thoughts on some of the common themes that I've seen repeated on your show. I really appreciate your take on tackling them. I think you do a fantastic job without calling on any expert psychologists to voice their opinions for the most part that I've seen.
I LOVE YOU STEVE THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST TALK SHOW I HAVE EVER WATCHED YOU BRING PEOPLE ON YOUR SHOW WITH REAL ISSUES OF THE WORLD AND EXPOSE THEM I HAVE NEVER MISSED AN EPISODE WAKE UP IN THE MORNING READY TO SEE WHAT IS GOING TO BE ON YOUR SHOW KIC K THOSE BASTORDS OFF YOUR STAGE ...
We love watching Steve Wilkos Show . But sometimes we wish he would have the child molesters arrested from his show when they have been found guilty from the polygraph test . But nothing is ever done to have these types of people arrested . And to say that the family will have them arrested when they get back home is kind a stupid because the molester knows when he / she gets back home they have time to get away from the Why doesn't Steve have the police waiting for them after the show has ended ?
"The Steve Wilkos Show" really made my day. Former soldier, former "Jerry Springer" security guard, and former cop, Steve is a really good talk show host. My favorite quotes from him are: "Why don't you get off my chair" and "GET THE (whatever it is) OFF MY STAGE (& STUDIO)". I sorta love the way he scolds at the guests for being ruthless and weak. I'm your biggest fan Steve, and I always will.
i have a 14 yr old that lies on me and got cps involved because she got grounded for selling spice so she ran away told all kinds of lies and still continues. i refused to jump through hoops for her lies so she is in a foster home, but she calls everyone telling them lies, the ones who know better she quit talking to, the ones who dont make my life hell . she calls me a ***, says she wishes i was dead and all because she wants to do whatever she wants. sleep with boys over the age of 18, get . i want it to end and her lies to come to truth.
Your show is so strong, I always wonder if some of these stupes, especially the child molesters ever leave your show and go home and commit suicide, or skip out. Love your show, you are very down to earth, knowledgable. thank you
that their body is their body and NO means no, please.
too many people are being abuse out there babies, kids, teens and adults ,I am so glad you are bring this out in the open its been in the dark too long, please keep helping those who are being abuse because they do need a voice and you steve are there voice. thank you for those who lost their voice can now be heard
Love your show,everyone in my house watches your wish you could set up a boxing ring so that you can just beat the crap out of these guys who hit have been with men like that in my pass,not no more,i am 58 years old with a great husband who loves me very am as mean as you if not meaner,and i could never live a person like husband who i love and still love never hit walks a can i please have a t-shirt?Send it to Katie brady at 772 apple ave Ukiah,ca 95482.
hi my name is Cassandra McCarthy I had gotten married April 19th of this yeah, and I have a 6 month old daughter (Jessica Faith McCarthy) well me and my husband just got into a big fight like 2 weeks ago, and come to find out he has been stealing stuff and returning the stuff back, well I had just went to court on the 21 of this month, and him, his mom tells the judge that I was doing drugs and drinking around my daughter, and caused me to lose my daughter... what do I do Steve I have tried everything please help me Steve
Steve,starting about a year ago I have been stalked by either a secret admirer or a sexual criminal they are using some type of sound spy equipment to listen and talk to me 24 hours a day they use mostly sexual hipnosis on me and sexual assults using sound I want to know if this is an admier or a criminal please send some type of police sound equipment to my home and listen and talk to them my address is 34202sw212ave 344st west palm drive 33034 florida city florida I need an expert in sound spy equipment to track them my parent shouldnt know about it so keep it secret when you get there using long range spy equipment my names Luke Lott my e-mail is I tried the police and everyone else I could think of please get to the bottum of this I want to meet them or I want them to go to jail they already put atleast a thousand sexual assults on my cant take it.
Steve I watch your show everyday and I want to say that you are wonderful. You tell people what everyone else is afraid to say. I am watching your show right now about the man that is selling his girlfriend's body because he thinks she is his property and should take care of him. I hope you get her the help to get away from this monster. It is sad that we have some men in this day and time that feel this way. Keep up the good work.
to much to wright,if you can,i invite you to my sight ...3 year old needs well as my little a single dad of to my baby gril was betten to years ago cop is covering it up i demand justic. you being an x cop may help her pass the horiffic fear when she see a come to her school even for druge awereness she runs away from the school strate home to me evertime
I have read some of these post. IF you don't like Steve, Don't watch him. I for one, Love Steve Wilco, He doesn't let Ignorant abusive people get by with their wish he had the ability to Bitch Slap some of them think Steve is a great guy and role model ...
Steve I just wanted to let you know that my son dated the sister of the woman on Monday's show. As a matter of fact he stayed with them for about six months. He also says she is not a good mother or he a good father. I am looking forward to the show. I watch you every day. Just a little heads up about the family that will be on your show. They are not all there in the head. They put my son through hell. At one point they told him he had to go I am not sure why, but he says they are not right. If you may have any questions for my son his name is Daniel Enyart and the phone # is (336) 573-7019.
I watch Steve almost everyday. He shouldn't be doggin the men for "getting the girls/women pregnant". First of all, my mother taught me that in order not to get pregnant, you must protect yourself, not depend on a man. As a woman with respect for herself, she does not realize how bad she looks when she has multiple sex partners and don't know who the father of her child is. It is the women's responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant. Most of the time, she either wants to "trap the man"; "live off of child support and not work"; "create drama"; and it is the child that gets hurt through this process. I'm glad my mother taught me how to protect myself because I didn't want no drama; didn't want to be a teenage mother; thought more of myself than to have multiple sex partners and was too embarrassed to have to go to my family doctor or clinic for an STD. Women it 2013, there are to many safety to prevent pregnancy, so Steve you need to lay it on the girls/women, too. Doesn't your wife teach her daughter? Do you want your son to get "trapped"? Even if they put a "cap on it" women can be very treacherous when they want a baby. I'm glad I'm not one of them. I enjoy your show, but as a advocate for fathers, I think you ought to be addressing these girls/women harder than you do.
With Steve, every thing is a teachable moment, unlike Jerry who thinks it's all a joke. People actually learn how to behave and what they SHOULD be doing (with Steve). Jerry is just perverse sensationalism taking advantage of poorly educated people.
That show was deep. I don,t understand how could her husband give her the keys knowing they both had to much to drink. And I was also thinking where was her kids when all that was going on. They both are unfit parents as I see it. Everybody need to going get help for drinking they all got problems.Am so sorry for the baby who die from all this.
I just wanted to say I watch your show every chance I get. The shows where their abuse (ANY) I think you have great tips for how to deal with whatever the situation might be. You are a hero to many. If I learn anything from your show I know what do in my next relationship if abuse starts LEAVE! I think you do a greatjob dealing with these crazy people! I don't knowhow you do it! I Thankyou for helping so many people. I think when you cover an other abuse situations , If they fail the lie dector they should be led off in handcuffs that might send a great mesage! keep up helping people! God Bless You for what you do! Laura in Charleston SC.
I keep hearing you talk to your wife but I have never seen her I beat she is pretty. I guess you don't want to show her to keep her safe from all of the nuts out there who don't like you I understand. Is there any way you may be able to send me a pic of your family. PS I love your show keep it up. Laura Fields
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