Steve, I just watched the episode of your show that aired on !/23/2015. The ladies on the show act like they deserve the way they are treated or they are not surprised that their mates hit them or cheat on them or both. I guess I grew up in a different time ( sometimes it feels like a different world ) but I can't decide why anyone would think it's . You have more self control than me. I would love to pick up one of your chair and not throw it at a post or across the room but much rather break it on these guys who have no man training and get the ladies some self esteem classes so that they know they have self worth. How do you do it and please keep up the good work. I wish there were more men out there like you. Thank you Jerry in Tn.
Charles williams was on your show in 2010 with his girlfriend edweena for cheating, he is now passed and all his family in Chicago and Michigan would love for this to be replayed can you tell me what episode it is so maybe we can see it on here?
I enjoy your program very much. It is the best talk show of its kind on daytime tv as it really discusses deep issues and you try to offer obtainable solutions to your guest's problems.
My name is Michael. I am a recovering Heroin addict. I had a 24 year addiction. I was a NYU graduate and became a high school French teacher. Some years into teaching my cousin introduced me to the drug. It took over my life and ruined it for all those years. I spent two decades of rehabs, detoxes and methadone/suboxone programs. I am happy to report that I am clean today. I had three years clean when I had a brief relapse in the summer of 2013 but I am back to the 12 step programs now 16 months and doing better than ever.
As a child I had been bullied by the boys in gym class. I was thin and non-athletic. I am gay but didn't know it at that time, just knew I felt "different" than the other kids. I was never physically or sexually touched, but the verbal abuse penetrated my psyche and has been the root to my chemical abuse.
I am currently working the field of mental health and addictions. It is very rewarding. I have my application in to graduate school for counseling in co-occurring illnesses--working with both mental illnesses and addictions. I hoping to be accepted however I failed the GRE test miserable. I'm positive I will never need to know the slope of the y axis to the x axis as a therapist!! LOL.
Anyway, your shows on pedophilia, cheating partners, abuse of women, and substance abuse touch me deeply. Any show where one is a victim reminds me of my own trauma of being in junior high school gym class. Those biting words from those boys caused me to retreat into a world of drugs at the age of 13. I was a smart kid and somehow always maintained excellent grades even though my drug use increased in type and frequency as I graduated high school and went to university and even completed a portion of grad school with a 4.0 while shooting heroin in the school's bathroom.
Some of your guests are in such deep denial of their substance abuse that it never surprises me that when you do an update that they left the treatment center you set up for them. It is a very sad thing to leave such an opportunity when there are people literally dying out there who would love such an opportunity for recovery. Although the 12 step program approach to recovery may not be a blanket answer for all addicts/alcoholics, it is the only modality which worked for me. I tried everything out there. I thought for sure therapy would be the answer. It is part of my reality today but working a twelve step program is top priority. The support of people all doing the same thing goes without parallel. With Honesty, Open-Mindedness, and Willingness, HOW-- is how it works.
In your dealings with pedophilia, their chances at recovery are not that successful. They can be incarcerated for years but no real help will they gain in prison. Potentially, if they are highly motivated to change and really willing and remorseful, they could work with an excellent expert in the field who is trained especially to handle these cases. They may have some positive results but the outlook still remains grim for the most part. And society will seldom if ever forgive this crime no matter how much rehabilitation the person receives.
The man who is abusive to his partner or women abusive to her husband, is that bully on the playground all grown up. He is coward wearing a neck size 17 and xxl shirts. He exerts his power over the weaker person to cover up his own inadequacies and short comings. He is no more than a frightened little boy incapable of assuming an adult mature relationship with a partner. He beats her and controls her every move to show his power because within himself he feels nothing of the kind. I love it when you have those guys on who come and show these guys what it's like to have them be controlled and talked down to and shouted/screamed at. they end up cowering and eventually the tears do flow as those men often break through the abusive men's defense mechanisms and bring light to exactly what they've been doing to their partner.
And lastly you have the cheaters!! People cheat for a myriad of reasons but often out of insecurity and fear. They may fear that their partner is eventually going to leave them or cheat on them anyway so they want to beat them to the punch. They cheat for sex addictions, just to fulfill a lust that is burning within them that their one partner alone cannot fulfill. They are addicted to pornography sites, strip clubs, and prostitutes. Sex addictions like other addictions are filling a void in a person that they have not been able to fill on their own. There are the obsession and compulsion components viable to all addictions across the board. The old adage once a cheater always a cheater can ring true in some cases. Many cases though the person is very remorseful and it was just a one time affair and if they are forgiven they will go back to their marriage and work on it and do not repeat that affair. I think cheating is complex because it is dealing with one's psychology and biology. Add alcohol or other substance in the mix and you have a recipe for disaster given the right circumstances. --the lonely housewife whose husband is always working or travelling, the wife who is too busy with kids and work and too tired all the time for sex, the husband who goes out a lot with an active social life independent of his partner and meets women all the time casually, just the marriage which has become mundane and lost any spark, the couple where communication has stopped and the two begin leading separate lives and even stop sharing a bed.
These were just some of my thoughts on some of the common themes that I've seen repeated on your show. I really appreciate your take on tackling them. I think you do a fantastic job without calling on any expert psychologists to voice their opinions for the most part that I've seen.
I feel that on Nov 4 2014 show that. I am 55 years old and when I was 14 I got pregnant by my boyfriend he was 18 senior in high school but he had older friends l wad so in love .well I really dnot think in cases it is only the boys fault. just because he is over 18 I'm sorry even thou I was one that was too young. My boyfriend was in love with me but was scared he stood by my and married me. I didn't mean to get pregnant but if my family had stepped in and tried to prosecute the boy I would have hated my parents or anyone that tried to split us up you tend to think that all people are coming from your point of view . Now ,it was not my boyfriends fault. For the courts to say he was a sexual offender would not have beentrue. By 13 ,14, 15 I grew no taller I probably didn't get that much more intelligent by 18 I was worse making worse choices actually deciding to not have an abortion and to tell our parents was a more mature choice . And you do know that 100 years ago women where married off by 15 years old before they let girls get they were considered almost to old, if they weren't spoken for or no arrangements had been made. I had to go to court to get married in the state of Washington. The judge told me I didn't have to get married there was other ways but I wanted to marry . There was no talking me out of it. To this day my children are 40 and 41 ,their father was there for them. He took good care of those children it was hard. He had to go to work and keep working but he never complained. Today we have 4 grandchildren and my daughter is a hair dresser and my son works at att communications to take care of his family. I don't think it would of worked out if My husband had been convicted of being a sex offender and thrown in prison for 2 years. It would not have turned out at all. I think in a lot of those cases the law doesn't look at people individually they just lump all people together and convict. Today it's even worse. At least then most people knew their neighbors ,now there are too many people you don't know if it's malicious rape or a couple kids just getting carried away and in love. Sometimes I think your not very open minded when it comes to some situations. Do you really care what this couple does with there life it's not your kids. You know your kids are young and maybe your little oppionated if I was your child I'd be scared to disagree with you and would probably hide a lot of things from you. Until I grown up enough to defy you and have a real opinion I've my own. You probably won't be the one they talk to. Honestly because your intolerant. To a point of intimidation. Good Luck I don't say this with any disrespect at all I just know how I was growing up and parents no matter how good they are, are on a need to know basis only. They are usually the last to find out. Kids will tell there friends and lovers first. Then if they have to tell their if your not easy to tell things
My wife & I have watched your show & saw that people are lying on kids & manipulating them into saying that the other person abused or molested them & some times the person that's telling the story will go as far as crying swearing on there love one's etc & after all that when the lie detector test comes back everyone finds out that they lied & by then they have sat down on your stage the same stage you told the other person who was being lied on that they could not sit. We understand that you don't want them to sit & they shouldn't if they did something that horrible & we agree but by you letting the lier sit is not much better as well & there should be a law to punish those who willingly make up lies & accusations like those against another person because that person will never be looked at the same again no matter what so maybe you should start having everyone stand up on your stage until the lie detector test comes back then they can sit down if they pass & that would be fair to all. Anyone that's out there who agree do let it be known by liking & sharing.
I LOVE YOU STEVE THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST TALK SHOW I HAVE EVER WATCHED YOU BRING PEOPLE ON YOUR SHOW WITH REAL ISSUES OF THE WORLD AND EXPOSE THEM I HAVE NEVER MISSED AN EPISODE WAKE UP IN THE MORNING READY TO SEE WHAT IS GOING TO BE ON YOUR SHOW KIC K THOSE BASTORDS OFF YOUR STAGE ...
We love watching Steve Wilkos Show . But sometimes we wish he would have the child molesters arrested from his show when they have been found guilty from the polygraph test . But nothing is ever done to have these types of people arrested . And to say that the family will have them arrested when they get back home is kind a stupid because the molester knows when he / she gets back home they have time to get away from the Why doesn't Steve have the police waiting for them after the show has ended ?
"The Steve Wilkos Show" really made my day. Former soldier, former "Jerry Springer" security guard, and former cop, Steve is a really good talk show host. My favorite quotes from him are: "Why don't you get off my chair" and "GET THE (whatever it is) OFF MY STAGE (& STUDIO)". I sorta love the way he scolds at the guests for being ruthless and weak. I'm your biggest fan Steve, and I always will.
Did valerie pass her lie detector test there was a special news program on from the president so I don't know what happened if any one knows let me know please I don't know why but I got to know what happened!
I watched your show today like i do most everyday, however this episode really got me. I usally agree with Steve but not today!!! The way he treated that girl was bull!!! He called her a Bitch Numerous times, through the whole show he treated her like shit and at the end was the kicker he said to her get off my stage you miserable bitch, I couldnt believe my ears!! I think that was uncalled for!! I think Steve was out of line. Steve should have seen that all that bitchyness was a front so people dont see how bad she is hurting.
I am outraged about the show on Tuesday regarding Rebecca and her husband who was accused of molesting her 2 year old daugter. It is a proven fact that sociopaths can control their autonaumic nervous
system in order to trip test - false negatives result. The husband was essentially acquitted based on a lie detector test which aren't even admissible in court due to their unreliability? You kept telling Rebecca that she changed her story and therefore you discounted her account. She couldn't decide if she would take back her husband even if he were to pass the lie detector test. So what? 99.9% of rape cases are true - it is the jury (and most typically women) who decide to blame the victim. In this case you are suggesting that Rebecca would make up the fact that her husband did 'the wiggle, wiggle, dance' and her her daughter's 'pee First of all, that would take some creativity to describe the incident as such, but the odds that she would make it up are negligible. Therefore, you have just sent a molester back to his family. How messed up do you think this 2 year old will be for the rest of her life. And you and the audience made fun and mocked the mother. You accused her of changing her story - so utterly lame. She didn't once change the details of the molestation. she just couldn't decide to take back the husband if he were to pass the lie detector test. You are a very sick man.
I generally like your show where I take humor out of some of the episodes there's so many more that are just really upsetting, with children get molested people living with being raped/families getting torn apart. But I just had to ask is it staged? People have said it is so I was just wondering. I still enjoy your show!
When your subject matter is a child who has been molested and you have the alleged perpetrator and the relative I cringe. As a survivor of child sexual abuse I cannot imagine having this type of "proof" of who changed my life forever recorded along with the screaming and fighting that accompanies the allegations. When your show covers an adult who for whatever reason wants to air their misfortunes that is their business and their decision. But when you are doing this to a child, it is like being abused in a different manner. True the child never appears but so many people connected with that child knows the relative and the alleged monster so the connection makes itself. Do you, your staff, your sponsors, or even better the relative ever think of what this can do to the "victim"? Of course I can speculate that when 10 minutes of classless fame and money is involved the people who suffer are really not important and that is a shame!!!
i have a 14 yr old that lies on me and got cps involved because she got grounded for selling spice so she ran away told all kinds of lies and still continues. i refused to jump through hoops for her lies so she is in a foster home, but she calls everyone telling them lies, the ones who know better she quit talking to, the ones who dont make my life hell . she calls me a ***, says she wishes i was dead and all because she wants to do whatever she wants. sleep with boys over the age of 18, get . i want it to end and her lies to come to truth.
Your show is so strong, I always wonder if some of these stupes, especially the child molesters ever leave your show and go home and commit suicide, or skip out. Love your show, you are very down to earth, knowledgable. thank you
that their body is their body and NO means no, please.
too many people are being abuse out there babies, kids, teens and adults ,I am so glad you are bring this out in the open its been in the dark too long, please keep helping those who are being abuse because they do need a voice and you steve are there voice. thank you for those who lost their voice can now be heard
Hi Steve! I was being verbally abused, real bad one day. Started to video him with iPad . Your show was on the TV, so I was taping him with your show in the background. Got him on camera coming at me, you can tell there is a struggle, then the iPad falls to the floor and all you see is the ceiling fan. This was not uncommon. Seeing your show playing while he got me . . Well, I had him arrested and have a ppo on him. Thank you Steve!
Love your show,everyone in my house watches your wish you could set up a boxing ring so that you can just beat the crap out of these guys who hit have been with men like that in my pass,not no more,i am 58 years old with a great husband who loves me very am as mean as you if not meaner,and i could never live a person like husband who i love and still love never hit walks a can i please have a t-shirt?Send it to Katie brady at 772 apple ave Ukiah,ca 95482.
hi my name is Cassandra McCarthy I had gotten married April 19th of this yeah, and I have a 6 month old daughter (Jessica Faith McCarthy) well me and my husband just got into a big fight like 2 weeks ago, and come to find out he has been stealing stuff and returning the stuff back, well I had just went to court on the 21 of this month, and him, his mom tells the judge that I was doing drugs and drinking around my daughter, and caused me to lose my daughter... what do I do Steve I have tried everything please help me Steve
Steve-you are a former law enforcement officer: You obviously are aware of the fact that polygraph devices are not accurate. The courts almost uniformly reject the results of a polygraph device when offered in evidence for the purpose of establishing guilt or innocence, due to its unreliability. Some jurisdictions will not allow evidence of a polygraph to be introduced for any purpose, even if all parties have stipulated to its admission.
I just have to say as a matter of opinion Steve, that it seems by all measures that you are clearly in the business of exploiting the polygraph (electromachanical instrument) device for media entertainment and for a livelyhood: Man, what a bad way to go about it and thereby contribute to the dissolution or the break-up of families and loved ones! Do you get a thrill out of all this? Think about it for a moment: In the name of the almight dollar ($) you are executing and exploiting the polygraph machine for the sake of your livelyhood and thereby ruining the lives of many! You are only thinking about yourself! Come on Mr. Wilkos be a man and stand-up and wake-up to the reality of the issue! Do you realize the seriouseness of this matter? Can't you find some other means of employment? I am sure that you can---go to the Maury Show or Jerry Springer Show for employment, but: Unfortunatley, they to also utilize the employment with respect to the use of the polygraph device for the mere media entertainment and dollar profits for their advantage- am I not right Mr Wilkos?
Remember Mr. Steve Wilkos: The "Steve Wilkos Show" is all about you, you exploiting the polygraph device on your Show, and yes, about money and profits, and the contibuting with respect without remorse or emotion on your part to the the break-up or dissolution of marriages, families, friendships, etc! These actions on your part overall but surely is what constitutes the negative brew with respect to the substance of your Show if you want to even call it a 'Show!'
And oh yes: About police corruption or criminal police misconduct; Obviously on one of your shows dated April 22, 2013 you scoffed at and totally ridiculed and made a scene out of them (Your 'guests') when they stated that they witnessed police misconduct, brutality and corruption and you all you did was laugh at them and started yelling and screaming at the top of your voice! Come on Mr. former police officer, remember the huge major police scandal corruption conspiracy from the Eastern seaboard several years ago, namely, Scorpio? Think about it-
Steve,starting about a year ago I have been stalked by either a secret admirer or a sexual criminal they are using some type of sound spy equipment to listen and talk to me 24 hours a day they use mostly sexual hipnosis on me and sexual assults using sound I want to know if this is an admier or a criminal please send some type of police sound equipment to my home and listen and talk to them my address is 34202sw212ave 344st west palm drive 33034 florida city florida I need an expert in sound spy equipment to track them my parent shouldnt know about it so keep it secret when you get there using long range spy equipment my names Luke Lott my e-mail is I tried the police and everyone else I could think of please get to the bottum of this I want to meet them or I want them to go to jail they already put atleast a thousand sexual assults on my cant take it.
Steve I watch your show everyday and I want to say that you are wonderful. You tell people what everyone else is afraid to say. I am watching your show right now about the man that is selling his girlfriend's body because he thinks she is his property and should take care of him. I hope you get her the help to get away from this monster. It is sad that we have some men in this day and time that feel this way. Keep up the good work.
to much to wright,if you can,i invite you to my sight ...3 year old needs well as my little a single dad of to my baby gril was betten to years ago cop is covering it up i demand justic. you being an x cop may help her pass the horiffic fear when she see a come to her school even for druge awereness she runs away from the school strate home to me evertime
I have read some of these post. IF you don't like Steve, Don't watch him. I for one, Love Steve Wilco, He doesn't let Ignorant abusive people get by with their wish he had the ability to Bitch Slap some of them think Steve is a great guy and role model ...
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